I am a LEO woman and I started dating a GEMINI man almost 2 yrs ago , I was very attracted to him at first , but then I noticed that he was cold and not affectionate at all. In the begining of course he showed more love , because we met on line and all our connections were by phone , and he would always say , i love you, i miss you and i wish i were there with you ,so i could hold you close.
after we stated to see each other and he was staying with me , I noticed that all that stopped.
I took into consideration that he was different then me , I'm from NEW YORK and I am very affectionate, touchy feely type.
he comes from Georgia and was raised different then me , in a very cold family , they never hugged him or showed him love ,he said...and he is very cold , shows very little affection, he does not express his love, but he is very godod hearted and giving..?
this is very upsetting to me because it is something I need in my relationship.
he says it's just the way he is . It's very hard for him to do.
never met a man like this , he don't even kiss,unless I kiss him.
usually during **** a man is very affectionate and kissing you, but not him .
is this normal in a gemini ,?
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Love & Relationships » WHATS WRONG WITH GEMINI MEN
I, too, was in a relationship with a Gemini man. I am also a Gemini (female). The relationship with him was much the way you are describing your relationship, right down to when asked about why he was not more affectionate he would say this is just how he was or he didn't know how to express his feelings. It was very frustrating and left me wondering if he really loved me at all. He told me that of course he did, look at how much time we spent together and how often we talked on the phone. He would say that if he wasn't working or spending time with his kids (from a previous relationship) he was with me. I finally had enough and we parted ways. I need someone who is affectionate and who will talk to me about how he feels about me. I think that this is a Gemini male trait.
Tracer411: Leo's like to be the center of attention and tend to be bossy. A Gemini male (like all Geminis) aren't into people who are divas. They are creative, in to team work, but not into fauning over ther loves. What is **** to a Gemini is your mind, not necessarily your looks or body. Take advantage of their creativity in the bedroom and the relationship, and don't order them about.
Justme1969: How many times has your friends said you tend to be standoffish or brood on your feelings instead of expressing them. Naturally they're wrong about you. Two geminis together can cause problems cos you're both alike. Geminis are critical of themselves, so beware of being critical or nitpicking the faults of your Gemini partner. Treat them the way you want to be treated.
I am a Gemini woman I have been accused of not being affectionate (cancer man) I don't know how to initiate that type of contact without worring about getting heavy, like I'm being needy but I do like it when others initiate as long as it is a gift to me not an attempt to take or drain me emotionaly. I dated a gemini male and we understood eachother well, we'd talk for hours and when I wanted to snuggle I didn't ask if I could or why he didn't I just sat on his lap or layed on his chest. I was never rejected or pushed away. Just go for it, even if he is a little uncomfortable if he cares he won't hurt your feelings.
HI I AM A CANCER WOMAN WHO HAS DATED A GEMINI MAN OFF AND ON FOR ABT 9 YRS. IN THAT 9 YRS WE HAVE MAINTAINED A FRIENDSHIP EVEN WHEN WE ARE WITH OTHER PPL. WHEN WE SAW EACH OTHER THE FIRST TIME, HE WAS AFFECTIONATE BUT WHEN WE WERE APART, HE WAS DEFINATELY DISTANT AND SOMETIMES COLD TOWARDS ME. I FELT LIKE I WAS ALWAYS CHASING HIM, TRYING TO TALK HIM INTO ADMITTING HIS LOVE FOR ME. HE REFUSED TO... AND HE HAD NO PROBLEM TELLING ME HE DIDNT LOVE ME. HOWEVER, WHEN HE HURT ME EMOTIONALLY, I WOULD QUIT CALLING HIM, HE WAS THE ONE WHO CAME BACK EVERY TIME. WE TRIED AGAIN A FEW YEARS LATER, EVERYTHING WENT GREAT FOR 3 WKS, THEN ONE WKND I COULDNT REACH HIM, WHEN I FINALLY REACHED HIM, I ASKED WHERE HE HAD BEEN AND HE SAID "THAT'S NONE OF UR BUSINESS." I TOLD HIM HE HAD HURT ME FOR THE LAST TIME AND I BROKE UP WITH HIM. HIS RESPONSE WAS HE WANTED TO MAKE IT WORK, BUT IF I DIDNT, OK. SO HERE WE ARE 4 YRS LATER, WE HAVE BEEN TALKING A LOT THE PAST 8 MOS, AS HE HAD MOVED TO A DIFFERENT STATE. HE MOVED BACK TO THE CITY I RESIDE IN. HE HAS BEEN CALLING ME, TEXTING ME A LOT, COMING TO SEE ME, AND WHEN HE SEES ME, HE CANT KEEP HIS HANDS OFF OF ME, OR HIS LIPS. HE IS THE ONE CHASING ME NOW, I FEEL LIKE THE BALL IS IN MY COURT. SO I THINK GEMINI'S CAN BE AFFECTIONATE WHEN THEY ARE READY TO, WHEN THEY HAVE MADE THEIR MIND UP ABOUT A PERSON. I'M NOT MAKING THIS EASY FOR HIM THO, HE IS GOING TO HAVE TO CHASE FOR A LONG TIME ATLEAST 3 MOS BEFORE I GIVE HIM THE SATISFACTION OF BEING IN A LTR WITH ME.
I just got through dating a gemini man and I am an aquarian. He broke it off with me with no reason. I thought things were going very well between us. I am wondering if the gemeni person will be hot and cold in a relationship. we were going out for only a couple of months. The problem is there was no reason he could find why he didn't want to go out anymore. He has been divorced for 6 years
Most Geminis I've known are crazy and intimate relationships typically do not come easy for them. They are more mental than physical or emotional. I dated one who was quite affectionate when he wanted something, but he always seemed to have an agenda of self-interest. We had a good relationship for a number of years (Virgo and Gemini seem to have a mercurial mental connection) but I needed more affection than he wanted to give. Liking came easy for him but loving did not. He was very off the wall in many ways, always doing many things at once and didn't like to listen to other people but typically enjoyed hearing himself talk. Liked to manage and control other people and if he couldn't do that would depart and be on to other things. On a positive note he was very humorous and fun to party with. Geminis are very non-commital typically... this is not to say they aren't capable of genuine love but it doesn't come easy for them.
Just a note to my above comment, you may also want to consider a person's moon sign also. The moon sign is very powerful in addressing the inner personality, just as important as the sunsign is to the outer personality.
To the cancer woman: Geminis just love a chase, don't give in to him. Geminis can be as bad as they are good. 'If you dine with the devil be sure to eat your soup with a long spoon.'
